To love or be loved
“What is better? Love or be loved?” What we’d like to believe we have sufficient capacity to combine the two so that we can truly feel love. One person gives more than the other. It is clear and is present in every situation and we can not dismiss the appeal. Reciprocity always wish that it is actually a false reciprocity.
To love or be loved
Without realizing how it really feels, let us get carried away by time, spontaneous, without having time to distinguish good from evil.
We do not ask a vital question: “What is better? Love or be loved?” Rather believe we have sufficient capacity to combine the two so that we can truly feel love.
One person gives more than the other. It is clear and is present in every situation and we can not dismiss the appeal. Reciprocity always wish that it is actually a false reciprocity. A relationship always consists of two persons, from which one always gives more than the other. A person is more flexible, gives more often, is ready to make a commitment, while the other strives to always be right, and tries to impose a certain pattern in the relationship, not for pride, but only because he / she thinks it’s better that way.
However, sometimes, because we really want that everything would go well, we forgot to contradict, to explain our view outdoors, to be our own self and we became a totally unrecognizable.
Moreover, love is not to change someone to fit our image can be perfect, but finding someone who fits our personality and our requests. We chose to love instead of being loved, because we know how it feels not to be loved and what is more, we have within ourselves the desire to be loved!
Sometimes we like more than you owe, or exaggerate in expressing our feelings. Why we are more aware and why think more about the welfare of others and choose to suffer?
Even if the apparent solution is left to love, I do not think they can live with us or with the thought that our partner is not appreciated as he or she should be. We hurt when our partner suffers. We love, perhaps more than they should.
We love what we can live life to the fullest. We love celebrating the hope of a genuine happiness in our hearts. We love and we are not evil by it. The love is not jealous, love is not envy, love does not cause pain, and love is pure.
There should be no place for selfishness in a relationship, nor space to play with other `s feelings. We hurt each other in the most dim-ingenious ways possible. Sometimes we are not careful with the one next to us and that can be tragic, because one thing disappointing, once said, can not be returned and that leaves marks.
If we love each other how we are to suppose, most of our problems melt instantly. Love is tied to confidence, kindness, pleasant character and some other important things. These boards could make a big difference around the world. But it is hard to overcome our own selfishness and ignoring the needs of our staff, to meet the needs of others.
Even in romantic relationships do not always give what is best for our partners. It is a mistake, however, still tend to do so. Such things must change, because without love, nothing would be the same.
We must choose to love more loved. It is not easy, but if all they did, it would be giving and receiving at the same time.
Let’s look at what the Bible has to say about love. This applies to all types or relationship: “Love is patient, love is kind. Do not envy, does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, not self-seeking, not easily angered, and will not save registration errors. Love is not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres and.
Love never fails!
However, when there are prophecies, they will cease; languages where there is still, when there is knowledge, will end. Because we know in part and prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, spoke as a child, I thought as a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the average child behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror, then we will see face to face. Now I know in part, then I will know fully, even as I fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. ”
We will choose to love.